Budgeting3 min readFoundations

Needs vs. Wants: The Foundation of Spending

The simplest concept in personal finance—and the hardest to actually follow.

Women managing bills and counting expenses together

Before you can , you need to honestly sort your spending into two categories: needs and wants.

Needs

Things required for survival and basic functioning:

  • Housing (but not the nicest apartment)
  • Utilities
  • Basic food (groceries, not restaurants)
  • Healthcare
  • Transportation to work
  • Minimum payments
  • Basic clothing

Wants

Everything else:

  • Dining out
  • Entertainment and subscriptions
  • Vacations
  • Nicer car than necessary
  • Latest phone
  • Name brand vs. store brand
  • Gym membership you don't use

The Tricky Part

Watch Out

We're really good at convincing ourselves wants are needs.

What We SayWhat's True
"I need a car"You need transportation
"I need to eat out"You need to eat
"I need a new phone"You need a working phone
"I need this subscription"You want entertainment

The Honest Test

Pro Tip

Ask yourself: "Would I die, lose my job, or face serious consequences without this?" If no, it's a want.

Wants aren't bad. Spending on wants is fine—IF you're meeting your financial goals first.

Priority Order

  1. True needs
  2. payoff (especially high-interest)
  3. Retirement savings
  4. Wants

Quick Win

Track spending for one month. Honestly label each purchase as need or want. The results might surprise you.

Key Takeaways

  • 1We're experts at convincing ourselves wants are needs
  • 2Wants aren't bad—but they come after needs and savings
  • 3Track spending and honestly categorize it to see the truth