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Beneficiary Planning: Ensure Your Money Goes Where You Want

Learn how to properly designate and update beneficiaries to avoid costly mistakes and ensure smooth wealth transfer.

Family beneficiary planning

Beneficiary designations determine who receives your retirement accounts, life insurance, and other assets. They often override your will, making them critically important—and commonly neglected.

Why Beneficiaries Matter

Watch Out

Beneficiary designations typically override your will. A decade-old beneficiary form can send money to an ex-spouse even if your will says otherwise.

Accounts with Beneficiary Designations

  • 401(k) and 403(b) plans
  • Traditional and Roth IRAs
  • Life insurance policies
  • Annuities
  • Bank accounts (payable on death)
  • Brokerage accounts (transfer on death)

Types of Beneficiaries

Primary Beneficiary

Who receives assets first. If living, they get everything.

Contingent Beneficiary

Who receives assets if primary is deceased. Backup recipients.

Per Stirpes vs. Per Capita

MethodWhat Happens
Per StirpesIf beneficiary dies, their share goes to THEIR heirs
Per CapitaIf beneficiary dies, share splits among surviving beneficiaries

Example: You name your 3 children. One passes away before you.

  • Per Stirpes: Deceased child's share goes to their children (your grandkids)
  • Per Capita: Two living children split everything 50/50

Common Beneficiary Mistakes

Mistake 1: Not Naming Beneficiaries

Assets go through probate. Delays, costs, and your wishes may not be followed.

Mistake 2: Naming Only Primary (No Contingent)

If primary dies first, assets go through probate anyway.

Mistake 3: Outdated Beneficiaries

  • Ex-spouses still listed
  • Deceased individuals named
  • Children born after designation not included

Mistake 4: Naming Minor Children Directly

Minors can't receive assets directly. A court-appointed guardian controls the money until they're 18.

Mistake 5: Naming Your Estate

Loses stretch IRA provisions, may go through probate.

Best Practices

Review Annually

Add beneficiary review to your annual financial checkup.

Update After Life Events

  • Marriage
  • Divorce
  • Birth of children
  • Death of beneficiary
  • Inheritance received

Keep Documentation

Save copies of all beneficiary forms. Keep them with important documents.

Consider a Trust as Beneficiary

For complex situations:

  • Blended families
  • Special needs beneficiaries
  • Control over distributions

Pro Tip

A trust as beneficiary provides control but has tax implications. Consult an estate attorney.

Beneficiary Audit Checklist

AccountPrimaryContingentLast UpdatedNotes
401(k) at work
Traditional IRA
Roth IRA
Life insurance
Bank accounts
Brokerage

Special Situations

Married Couples

In most states, spouses have rights to retirement accounts. Naming someone other than spouse may require spousal consent.

Blended Families

Consider how assets flow:

  • Current spouse vs. children from prior marriage
  • Estate planning attorney recommended

Charitable Giving

IRAs can name charities. Charity pays no income tax on inherited IRA—full value goes to the cause.

Special Needs

Direct inheritance can disqualify someone from government benefits. A Special Needs Trust preserves benefits.

The SECURE Act Impact

As of 2020, most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw inherited IRAs within 10 years (no more lifetime stretch). This changes planning:

BeneficiaryRule
SpouseCan roll to own IRA
Minor children10-year clock starts at age 21
Disabled/Chronically illLife expectancy
Everyone else10-year rule

Getting It Done

  1. List all accounts with beneficiary designations
  2. Gather current forms from each institution
  3. Review and update each one
  4. Save copies in a secure location
  5. Tell someone where the copies are

The Bottom Line

Quick Win

Schedule a beneficiary audit this week. Log into each account and verify your designations. It takes an hour and could save your family months of legal headaches and thousands in costs.

Beneficiary planning isn't just about money—it's about ensuring your wishes are honored and your loved ones aren't burdened with legal complications during an already difficult time.

Key Takeaways

  • 1Beneficiary designations override your will—keep them updated
  • 2Name both primary AND contingent beneficiaries
  • 3Review annually and after any major life event
  • 4The SECURE Act requires most non-spouse beneficiaries to withdraw within 10 years