Buying your first home is one of the biggest financial decisions you will ever make. It is exciting, terrifying, and confusing all at once. This guide breaks down the process into manageable steps.
Should You Buy or Keep Renting?
Before diving into how to buy, ask yourself if you should buy. Homeownership is not always the right choice.
Buying makes sense if:
- You plan to stay in the area for 5+ years
- You have a stable income and job security
- You have saved for a and
- Your total housing costs will be manageable
Renting might be better if:
- You might move in the next few years
- Your income is unstable or you are between jobs
- You have high-interest debt to pay off first
- The local market is extremely expensive
Pro Tip
Use a rent vs. buy calculator to run the numbers for your specific situation. Sometimes renting and investing the difference comes out ahead.
Step 1: Check Your Financial Readiness
Your determines your rate. Higher score = lower rate = less money paid over time.
| Credit Score | Impact |
|---|---|
| 760+ | Best rates available |
| 700-759 | Good rates |
| 660-699 | Higher rates, still qualify |
| Below 660 | May struggle to qualify |
Do This
Check your credit score for free at annualcreditreport.com. If it needs work, spend 6-12 months improving it before applying for a mortgage. Even a 0.5% rate difference saves tens of thousands over a 30-year mortgage.
debt-to-income ratio Ratio
Lenders want your total monthly debt payments (including the new mortgage) to be no more than 43% of your . Many prefer 36% or less.
Down Payment
- Conventional loans: 5-20% down (20% avoids )
- FHA loans: 3.5% down minimum
- VA loans: 0% down for eligible veterans
- USDA loans: 0% down in rural areas
Budget 2-5% of the home price for closing costs. On a $300,000 home, that is $6,000-15,000.
Step 2: Get Pre-Approved
Before house hunting, get pre-approved for a mortgage. This tells you:
- How much you can borrow
- What your will be
- That you are a serious buyer (sellers take you seriously)
Pre-qualification vs. Pre-approval:
- Pre-qualification: Quick estimate, no verification
- Pre-approval: Lender verifies income, assets, credit (this is what you want)
A first-time buyer fell in love with a house and made an offer. But they were only pre-qualified, not pre-approved. While scrambling to get actual approval, another buyer with pre-approval swooped in and got the house. Get pre-approved first.
Step 3: Determine Your Budget
Just because you are approved for $400,000 does not mean you should spend $400,000. Lenders approve based on what you can technically afford, not what lets you live comfortably.
The 28/36 Rule:
- Housing costs should be no more than 28% of gross income
- Total debt should be no more than 36% of gross income
Do not forget these costs:
- Property taxes (varies by location)
- Homeowners insurance
- PMI (if less than 20% down)
- HOA fees (if applicable)
- Maintenance (budget 1% of home value per year)
- Utilities (often higher than renting)
Avoid This
Do not max out your budget. Leave room for life to happen—job changes, kids, repairs, emergencies. Being "house poor" is miserable.
Step 4: Find a Real Estate Agent
A good buyer's agent:
- Knows the local market
- Helps you find homes matching your criteria
- Negotiates on your behalf
- Guides you through paperwork
- Costs you nothing (seller typically pays)
Ask friends for referrals. Interview 2-3 agents before choosing.
Step 5: House Hunt
Make a list of must-haves vs. nice-to-haves. Be realistic—you will probably compromise somewhere.
Consider:
- Location (commute, schools, safety)
- Size (bedrooms, bathrooms, square footage)
- Condition (move-in ready vs. fixer-upper)
- Lot size and outdoor space
- Future resale value
Pro Tip
Visit homes at different times of day. A quiet street at 2 PM might be noisy at 6 PM. Drive the commute during rush hour before committing.
Step 6: Make an Offer
Your agent will help you craft a competitive offer based on:
- Comparable sales in the area
- How long the home has been listed
- Current market conditions (buyer's vs. seller's market)
- Your maximum budget
Contingencies to include:
- Inspection contingency (you can back out if major issues found)
- Financing contingency (if your loan falls through)
- Appraisal contingency (if home appraises below offer)
Step 7: Home Inspection
Always get an inspection—it costs $300-500 and can save you thousands.
The inspector checks:
- Foundation and structure
- Roof condition
- Plumbing and electrical
- HVAC systems
- Potential safety issues
If issues are found, you can:
- Negotiate repairs or price reduction
- Walk away (if contingency allows)
- Accept as-is
Step 8: Close the Deal
Closing typically happens 30-45 days after your offer is accepted.
Before closing:
- Finalize your mortgage
- Get homeowners insurance
- Do a final walk-through
- Review closing disclosure (3 days before)
At closing:
- Sign many, many documents
- Pay closing costs and down payment
- Receive the keys
First-Time Buyer Programs
Look into assistance programs:
- FHA loans: Lower down payment, easier qualification
- State/local programs: Down payment assistance, reduced rates
- Employer programs: Some companies offer homebuying benefits
- IRA withdrawals: Up to $10,000 penalty-free for first home
The Bottom Line
Quick Win
Start by checking your credit score and calculating how much you can truly afford (not just what lenders will approve). If you are not ready yet, that is okay—use the time to save more and improve your credit. A few months of preparation can save you thousands.
Buying a home is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time, do your research, and do not let anyone pressure you into a decision you are not ready for.
